Hello,
How wonderful, it's spring! Here's wishing you many new happy blooms in your life.
My Radio Interview, “It’s Never To Late To Marry!” is now available
If you missed my interview with Moira Shepard on her show “Triumph Over Trauma” you can listen to the free archived version her website www.TriumphOverTrauma.com/OntheRadio.htm
If you know someone struggling with being single later in life, and who has lost hope; please pass this information on to them so they can benefit from the 3 new strategies presented that will change their outlook and their experience.
Leaving Yourself Alone
Sometimes the best way to work on yourself is NOT to work on yourself. I mean actually put your priorities aside and fully engage yourself in someone else’s life and problems.
Like me, you may have spent countless hours reading “self-help” books and trying to keep up with the latest advice being presented to us every day by experts. There are so many non-fiction writers with so many wonderful ways to show us ourselves. There are countless exercises to try, lists to write and meditations to experience, all designed to help us know ourselves better and to help us solve our problems.
You may have a coach to help you stay on track and be accountable for your growth. You may go to therapy or meditation groups where you can work on yourself and get insight on how to feel better about yourself. These are wonderful tools, but can also be the source of being stuck as well.
This came to me very clearly recently when I had the experience of helping a family member move from her very stagnant and depressing life on the West Coast across the country to a new beginning. For a period of time, everything I did was focused on her. What would she take, what would she throw away. How to make her limited finances work for her in the best possible way. What she would need to make a new start, and what part of her old life needed to go with her. These decisions were very emotional and important to her and she needed help.
I was so wrapped up in her process that I my mind had the space to take a major vacation from me. My concerns, problems and issues were non-existent for this period of time and I didn’t miss them!
In fact, I found that I had a wonderful experience with myself which I fully enjoyed and embraced. The problems that had seemed so pressing and distracting, now appeared easy to handle as I was now seeing them from a new perspective.
I remind my clients often that self-esteem only comes from doing actions that make you proud of yourself. Sometimes helping someone else selflessly can be the best medicine for what ails you.
(Regarding my radio interview "It's Never to Late to Get Married")
"All I can say is THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for being so generous in sharing everything you did - you were WONDERFUL and sounded so soothing and confident and comforting and intelligent and funny all at the SAME time. I learned a lot, as I always have from you, and see many areas I need to improve in my life - all of which came as a relief to feel the realization. Thank you Virginia - I know whoever listened to this must be as inspired and comforted as I am - you are a blessing and I know that MANY people HAVE to continue to know about you and benefit from all that you are."
– Diana Little, the owner of Yes Company, your employment service company
"To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart."
~Eleanor Roosevelt
Virginia Feingold Clark, MFA, CHT
As a hypnotherapist I help my clients become aware of and listen to their inner voice. No matter what problem or difficulty you are struggling with, at the root of it is the way you see or feel yourself from the inside.
The benefits of hypnotherapy are far reaching and can have a great impact on your life. The subconscious mind creates the “subtext,” the emotion behind your thoughts, and it literally creates your life script.
The clients who come to me are aware that their inner thoughts create their life experience. Through the process of hypnotherapy you can discover the hidden intentions that have influenced you and enjoy a new sense of freedom.
If you desire to change your life to the way you want it to be, let's have a conversation. Give me a call 310 913-1777.
Virginia Feingold Clark, MFA, CHT
Your Inner Guide Hypnotherapy
Offices in West Los Angeles
(310) 913-1777
To know more about my background and how hypnotherapy works, please visit my website www.yourinnerguide.com. Questions and comments are welcome. Please send to: virginia@yourinnerguide.com.
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